The Three Most Important Things in Estate Planning

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Estate planning can often feel overwhelming, but it is a crucial process to ensure that your wishes are honored, and your loved ones are taken care of. I recently attended a meeting of the California Central Coast Estate Planning Council (CCCEPC), a wonderful group, by the way, and the chair, Teresa Rhyne, posed a thoughtful question: “If a client were to ask you, what are the three most important things in estate planning, what would you answer?”

This sparked a lively discussion, but many agreed that the following three aspects are paramount:

1. Clients Need to Have or Develop Clarity About Their Wishes

Some clients come to the table with a clear vision of their estate plan, while others require guidance to articulate their desires. The role of the estate planning attorney is often that of a guide and facilitator, helping clients uncover their true wishes and priorities.

Clarity involves understanding what you want to achieve with your estate plan: how you want your assets distributed, who should take care of your minor children, and how you wish to handle healthcare decisions if you become incapacitated. It’s about defining your legacy and ensuring your values are reflected in the legal documents.

2. Discuss Your Plan with All Involved and Select the Fiduciaries Carefully

Once you have clarity on your wishes, it’s essential to communicate your plan with those who will be affected, especially your chosen fiduciaries. These include successor trustees, executors, and anyone else who will be responsible for executing your plan.

Selecting the right fiduciaries is crucial. They should be trustworthy, organized, and capable of handling the responsibilities. Qualifications are important, but so is the ability to manage potential family dynamics. Open communication with your family can prevent misunderstandings and conflicts. Surprises can lead to strife, so discussing your plan with those involved ensures everyone is on the same page.

3. Implement the Plan

Having a well-thought-out plan is not enough; it needs to be implemented correctly. This includes updating deeds, beneficiary designations, and ensuring all legal documents are properly executed.

Failure to update these critical components can lead to significant issues. For instance, assets might end up in probate or be distributed contrary to your wishes. While legal remedies like a Hegstad petition can rectify some errors, they involve additional time and expense.

Implementing the plan effectively involves:

  • Updating deeds: Ensuring property titles reflect the correct ownership.
  • Beneficiary designations: Verifying that life insurance policies, retirement accounts, and other assets have the correct beneficiaries listed.
  • Regular reviews: Periodically reviewing and updating the plan to reflect changes in your life circumstances or in the law.


Estate planning is about more than just drafting documents; it’s about ensuring your wishes are understood, communicated, and executed correctly. By developing clarity about your wishes, discussing your plan with all involved, and implementing it meticulously, you can create a robust estate plan that honors your legacy and provides peace of mind for you and your loved ones. The discussions at the California Central Coast Estate Planning Council highlighted these points well, underscoring the importance of a comprehensive and thoughtful approach to estate planning.

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